braen ([info]braen) wrote,
@ 2008-05-03 11:43:00
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Current mood: contemplative

When did we killed happiness?
“We have everything we need to be happy, but we aren’t happy. Something’s missing.”

Fahrenheit 451, Ray Bradbury


Today, while I read the paper, this quote just popped up. And I just know it's true. We as a society, are not happy. Of course, there must be someone out there who is. There's always a exception to confirm the rule, but as a whole, we are not happy. We are content most of the time, pletoric sometimes, in this tiny little moments of true bliss, and, if we are really lucky, we can even achieve peace of mind. But we are not happy. Perhaps we aren't meant to be happy. Perhaps we killed happiness when we decided that only being the best, only achieving more than the rest, could a person be a winner. Perhaps, as I've always felt in my gut, we have mistaken personal gain with happiness and now we don't know our way back.

Perhaps those that claim that happiness is just a void word and doesn't exist are right.

Perhaps.

Mind you, We are not unhappy either. We, as a whole, as there might be exceptions again, can't live in a state of perpetual sadness. That would only drive as mad. I know. So we can't say we are unhappy, because... well... You know what I mean. Even those broken hearts of the worst shape (thousands and thousands of little pieces scattered all over) can feel elated by the wind in their face, the sun high up in the sky, the birds singing to welcome spring...

In spain we say "Despues de la tormenta, siempre llega la calma", after a storm, everything goes calm. But it's also said that perfect calm preceeds the worst of storms. So? That's how we are supposed to live? Blessing the few quiet calm moments, knowing a storm will come for sure? Facing the storm the best we can, knowing it's going to end sooner or later?

Sounds fair enough to me.

Perhaps it's not happiness, perhaps it is and we can't recognize it after all these years of waiting (like Penelope, who couldn't recognize his husband at first).

Anyway, perhaps I'm wrong and people is happy all over and it's just me that can't see it. So don't mind me much and be happy. Or just content, whatever suits you best. I will keep searching.



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[info]roser_orquin
2008-05-03 05:36 pm UTC (link)
Si et serveix de res, sóc feliç. Ho he estat la major part de la meva vida. Com tothom, he passat èpoques dolentes, de dubtes, de sofriment, d'odi, d'inseguretat. Però la resta de la meva vida puc dir que he estat feliç i que és quelcom que no fa l'efecte d'haver de canviar.

Se'm fa curiós que semblis demanar-li a la felicitat que sigui eterna. Ningú no ho és: per què ho hauria de ser la felicitat? I, sobretot, la felicitat no és la perfecció. És una altra cosa. La meva vida no és perfecta. Ara mateix puc afirmar que no tinc amics de veritat. Que la feina que faig no m'agrada, que fa dos mesos que no cobro suficient i que, tot i així, cada matí haig d'abandonar l'home que estimo i, de vegades, no tornar-lo a veure fins passades moltes hores. I tot i així sóc feliç.

Sóc feliç perquè el sol surt cada dia. Perquè em sento estimada per molta gent. Perquè la gent que estimo veu realitzades dia a dia les seves petites esperances. Perquè sempre torno a casa on m'espera l'home dels meus somnis per dir-me que m'estima i que m'ha trobat a faltar. Perquè tinc l'esperança posada en el futur. Perquè m'agrada com sóc. Perquè en el passat he aconseguit el que m'he proposat de veritat.

I no hi ha més. La felicitat és com un collar de perles. Petites. Precioses. Espero que trobis tu també el teu. Estic segura que l'has de tenir guarda't en algun calaix del teu pensament que no recordes quin és.

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I una altra cosa...
[info]roser_orquin
2008-05-03 06:01 pm UTC (link)
ja t'he dit que primer busquis la felicitat dins teu (no fos cas que fos com el que deies l'altre dia: que la duguis posada i no te'n recordis, que és el que passa la meitat de les vegades). Però si no la trobes dins, busca-la fora, en els altres, per si te'n poden donar una mica. La gent, encara que sembli mentida, sol ser molt generosa amb la felicitat i quan te'n vols adonar, en vas tant carregat que esclataries!

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Re: I una altra cosa...
[info]braen
2008-05-04 12:24 am UTC (link)
^_______^
Quan he parlat d'excepcions em referia a tu precisament, perque sabia que series la primera persona en afirmar que, efectivament, és feliç. Sé que ho ets, i aixó em comforta, perque vol dir que segurament soc jo que m'equivoco i ja está.

Jo tambe aprecio el sol, i la gent que m'estima, i les petites coses que dona el dia a dia (els nebots, els germans, els llibres i fins i tot alguna bona pelicula de tant en tant), però, no sé dir perqué, tot i que estic contenta i satisfeta, no em sento feliç. Però no m'amoïna en exces, no et preocupis ara!! M'amoïna més el fet de no saber ben bé que em falta que el saber que quan ho trobi podré entrar al teu club de gent genuinament feliç amb el que té.

T'avisaré quan ho tingui.

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